《男女思维大不同》：男人脑子里装的是盒子，女人装的是线
2018/3/3 每日意图

    

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     “男人的大脑是由一个个小盒子组成的，每个小盒子都装不同的东西。而女人的大脑就是一个大毛线球，所有东西都盘结在一起……”

     Mark Gungor是婚姻与家庭方面深受欢迎的国际级演讲大师。在演讲中，Mark Gungor以幽默的方式分析了男女思维方式的迥异，提醒人们凡事多站在对方的角度上体验和思考，才能架起一座沟通的桥梁。

    

     We’re gonna start discussing men’s brains, women’s brains, and how they’re very different from each other. Now, I wanna start with men’s brains. Alright? Men’s brains are very unique. Men’s brains are made up of little boxes, and we have a box for everything. We got a box for the car. We got a box for the money. We got a box for the job. We got a box for you. We got a box for the kids. We got a box for your mother somewhere in the basement. We got boxes everywhere, and the rule is: the boxes don’t touch. When a man discusses a particular subject, we go to that particular box. We pull that box out. We open the box. We discuss only what is in that box. Alright? And then we close the box and put it away being very very careful, not to touch any other boxes.

     我们来聊聊男人的大脑，女人的大脑，还有两者之间的不同。我想从男人的大脑开始。男人的大脑非常独特。男人的大脑是由一个个小盒子组成的，然后每个小盒子都装不同的东西。一个盒子装着车，一个盒子装着钱，一个盒子装着工作，一个盒子装着你，一个盒子装着孩子，还有一个装着你的妈妈，但我们几乎从不触碰。这些盒子到处都是，但有一个原则就是：这些盒子谁也不挨着谁，当男人讨论某个特定话题的时候，我们会找到相应的盒子，把它拽出来打开，我们会只讨论这个盒子里的东西，然后我们合上盒子，非常非常小心的把它放到一边，全程不会碰到任何其他的盒子。

     Now women’s brains are very, very different from men’s brains. Women’s brains are made up of a big ball of wire, and everything is connected to everything. The money’s connected to the car. The car’s connected to your job and the kids are connected… to your mother, and everything is connected to everything. It’s like the Internet super highway, OK? And it’s all driven by energy that we call emotion. It’s one of the reasons why women tend to remember everything. Because if you take an event and you connect it to an emotion.

     但女人的大脑和男人的大脑是非常非常不一样的。女人的大脑就是一个大毛线球，所有东西都盘结在一起，钱跟车连着，车和工作连着、和孩子连着…...和你妈妈连着，所有东西都连在一起了。这就像高速网线，她们的大脑完全由一种神秘的能量驱动，我们称之为情绪，这是女人容易记住所有事情的原因之一。因为如果你把一件事和当时的心情联系上了，它就会在你的记忆里产生剧烈的化学反应，然后你就永远记住它了。相同的事儿也会发生在男人身上，只是不那么频繁而已，因为，平心而论，我们不在乎。女人习惯性的会在意一切，并沉迷于此，不能自拔。

     It burns in your memory and you can remember it forever. The same thing happens for men, it just doesn’t happen very often, because, quite frankly, we don’t care. Women tend to care about everything! And she just loves it…OK. Now men, we have a box in our brain that most women are not aware of. This particularly box has nothing in it… In fact, we call it the “nothing box”. And of all the boxes a man has in his brain, the nothing box is our favorite box! If a man has a chance, he’ll go to his nothing box every time. That’s why a man can do something seemingly completely brain-dead for hours on end. You know, like fishing.

     对于男人来说，我们大脑里有一个大部分女人都不知道的盒子。这个盒子里什么都没有，实际上，我们称之为“真空箱”。在所有盒子当中，“真空箱”是我们的最爱，每次只要一有空，男人就会钻进“真空箱”里。这也就解释了男人可以总是貌合神离的原因。你想，就像钓鱼(Pretending fishing) 。

     You know, they connected all the wires and stuff like that, marked the brain activity. Our brain is dead! Women can’t do it, they can’t do it, their minds never stop. And they don’t understand the nothing box… And it drives them crazy… Because nothing drives a woman more crazy or makes you more irritated than to witness a man doing nothing!

     现在真的有人做了相关的测试：宾夕法尼亚大学在几年前做了一项研究，发现男人可以完全不思考任何事情，但仍然可以活着。就是他们把所有连线什么乱七八糟的东西都连接好，标记出大脑活动图，我们的大脑不转了。女人办不到，她们根本来不了这个，她们的思维永远不停止运转，她们也理解不了什么是“真空箱”，这能把她们逼疯，因为没什么比看到一个男人什么都不做更能让一个女人发疯或者恼火的了。

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