曾经中国人都很期待她能来主持春晚，她是中国谜一般的低调知性女人...
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     曾经多少中国人，

     都很期待她能来主持春晚，

     她，是原中央电视台的，

     中国第一女主播，

     “文革”后最早的一批大众偶像，

     只要那时家里有电视，

     你就一定知道她，

     绝对的家喻户晓，

     她被誉为“中国女性的典范”，

     她，就是杜宪。

     当年，说起陈道明，

     一定人人都会说：他是杜宪的老公。

     肯定不是：她是陈道明的妻子。

    

     1954年9月23号，她在北京出生。

     她的父亲杜庆华是中国工程院院士，

     清华大学教授，中国工程力学奠基人。

     虽然出身于一个知识分子的家庭，

     但她却没有碰上一个适合读书的年代。

     1970年，年仅16岁的她，

     就进入北京人民轴承厂参加工作，

     当时是“备战备荒”的非常年代，

     这座山沟里的工厂实行准军事化。

     她被分配到后勤连，

     即是解决一千多名职工，

     “民生”问题的大食堂。

     她在伙房里一干就是七年，

     从揉面烙饼蒸馒头到切肉剁馅掌勺，

     十八般厨艺都上过手。

     她说她最拿手的本领就是，

     往本应煎炒的大锅菜里加一瓢水。

     因为这样不容易糊锅。

     山沟里没有别的饭馆，

     职工们都得到食堂的窗口排队。

     她当值的窗口，队总是排得最长。

     她以为是自己的手脚比别人麻利，

     殊不知在这荒野中，

     她那秀色可餐的脸蛋在售饭窗口中，

     才最是令人赏心悦目的食粮。

    

     1977年，"文革"结束，恢复了全国高考。

     北京广播学院在门头沟也有个招生点。

     她抱着试一试的心情，报名参加了初试。

     没想到，亲自到考场挑人的，

     中央电视台资深播音员李娟、吕大渝，

     直接就看中了杜宪，

     并劝说她这就到电视台工作，

     别再赶高考这科场了。

     她们说：“后面还有文化考试，你不一定行。”

     那时电视还不普及，

     杜宪并不很清楚这是个什么行当，

     但也答应了。

     等到中央电视台去门头沟调她的档案时，

     发现档案已被招生办调走了。

     原来，杜宪刚过了合格线，

     后来被北京广播学院录取了。

    

     那一年，他24岁，她23岁，

     那时的陈道明还只是无名小卒，

     而杜宪则在北京属于有名的播音员。

     无关金钱，无关利益，

     他们在天津相识并且相爱，

     彼此都是对方的初恋，

     二人都怀着最真挚单纯的情感。

     陈道明之所以下决心去考中戏，

     目的就是不想与杜宪两地分居。

    

     杜宪曾回忆说：

     “和陈道明的认识，

     是我到广播学院上学之后的事。

     那一年的暑假，

     也是我上广院后的第一个暑假，

     我约了我过去工厂里的同事一起，

     去北戴河、秦皇岛、天津玩。

     在天津时，我有个舅舅在天津人艺。

     他给我介绍了一个人，

     就是他们单位的陈道明。

     第一次见他，是在我舅舅家。

     那时，我还觉得挺不好意思的，

     因为我过去从没有见过什么人。

     见到他时，觉得他还行，挺斯文的。

     他比我小一些。

     然后两人一块谈了谈，

     什么《简爱》啊，

     那时候的人都特别含蓄，

     不能显得自己没文化，

     就谈些小说什么的。”

     后来，她和表姐一起，

     去看陈道明演的戏。

     他演的是个小角色，

     那个小角色还有AB角。

     结果，那天的那场戏还不是他上场。

     看了半天，也没看到他。

     不过打那以后，两人就开始交往了。

    

     认识陈道明的第二年，

     他考上了中戏，

     为了能和他见面，

     一到星期天，杜宪就往中戏跑，

     跟他见一面再回家，每周都是如此。

     谈恋爱时，他们没少吵架。

     好几次都说要分手了，

     甚至把互相送给对方的东西都收了回来，

     还彼此祝福了一番。

     有一次，他们又闹了矛盾，

     说好以后永远不再来往了。

     到了周末，本应直接回家的她，

     却依然割舍不下心里的爱意，

     打算偷偷到中戏再看他一眼。

     “于是那天，我就在中戏门口下了车，

     下车后，我还在中戏门口站了会，

     然后便接着坐车回家。

     就在我倒最后一趟车时，

     远远就看见了马路对面站着一个人，

     就是陈道明。

     我走过去，我问他为什么在这等着？

     他说我就是想看你一眼。

     我说我如果不是走中戏你就看不到我，

     因为我不从这倒车，那你怎么办？

     他说那我就明天在清华你家附近等你。”

     两人就这样，重归于好了。

     杜宪说：

     “他是急脾气，可是谁让他遇上我了。

     我是脾气好，忘性大，

     第二天早晨，

     我总想不起来昨天晚上他是怎么气我的。

     有时候，我也想，

     以后一定当天晚上，

     就把他最恶毒的语言都记下来，

     省得忘了，然后，再恣意给他有力的还击。

     可是后来一想，大家都活得不容易，

     干什么跟他过不去呀。”

    

     分分合合，感情却越来越深，

     他们走进了婚姻的殿堂，

     婚后，在各自擅长的领域开花结果。

     1982年，杜宪被分配到中央电视台工作，

     进入CCTV新闻部播音组。

     她的脸，是苹果脸中最美丽的一类，

     端庄秀丽，皮肤如雪梨一般水润丰腴，

     脸部线条却又十分地柔和细腻。

    

     她刚一在电视上露脸，

     就成了中国老百姓的偶像，

     新闻播音员并无演技可言，

     更没有幽默搞笑的发挥空间。

     但她却能在有限的平面里，

     在黑白的屏幕中，

     显出雍容大方、端庄贤淑，

     很多人就是因为她，而爱上了新闻联播。

    

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They got an apartment in the Sunset District facing the Pacific, just south of Golden Gate Park, and he took a job working for a finance company as a “repo man,” picking the locks of cars whose owners hadn’t paid their loans and repossessing them. He also bought, repaired, and sold some of the cars, making a decent enough living in the process. There was, however, something missing in their lives. They wanted children, but Clara had suffered an ectopic pregnancy, in which the fertilized egg was implanted in a fallopian tube rather than the uterus, and she had been unable to have any. So by 1955, after nine years of marriage, they were looking to adopt a child. Like Paul Jobs, Joanne Schieble was from a rural Wisconsin family of German heritage. Her father, Arthur Schieble, had immigrated to the outskirts of Green Bay, where he and his wife owned a mink farm and dabbled successfully in various other businesses, including real estate and photoengraving. He was very strict, especially regarding his daughter’s relationships, and he had strongly disapproved of her first love, an artist who was not a Catholic. Thus it was no surprise that he threatened to cut Joanne off completely when, as a graduate student at the University of Wisconsin, she fell in love with Abdulfattah “John” Jandali, a Muslim teaching assistant from Syria. Jandali was the youngest of nine children in a prominent Syrian family. His father owned oil refineries and multiple other businesses, with large holdings in Damascus and Homs, and at one point pretty much controlled the price of wheat in the region. His mothe凝固的熔岩流。火星上常常有猛烈的大风，大风扬起沙尘能形成可以覆盖火星全球的特大型沙尘暴。每次沙尘暴可持续数个星期。火星两极的冰冠和火星大气中含有水份。从火星表面获得的探测数据证明，在远古时期，火星曾经有过液态的水，而且水量特别大。[51] 土星是离太阳第六颗行星，直径120536㎞，体积仅次于木星。主要由氢组成，还有少量的氦与微量元素，内部的核心包括岩石和冰，外围由数层金属氢和气体包裹着。地球距离土星13亿公里。土星的引力比地球强2.5倍，能够牵引太阳系内其它行星，使地球处于一个椭圆轨道中运行，并且与太阳保持适当距离，适宜生命繁衍。当土星轨道倾斜20度将使地球轨道比金星轨道更接近太阳，同时，这将导致火星完全离开太阳系。[52] 土星是已知唯一密度小于水的行星，假如能够将土星放入一个巨大的浴池之中，它将可以漂浮起来。土星有一个巨大的磁气圈和一个狂风肆虐的大气层，赤道附近的风速可达1800千米/时。在环绕土星运行的31颗卫星中间，土卫六是最大的一颗，比水星和月球还大，也是太阳系中唯一拥有浓厚大气层的卫星。[53] 天王星是离太阳第七颗行星，51118km。体积约为地球的65倍，在九大行星中仅次于木星和土星。天王星的大气层中83%是氢，15%为氦，2%为甲烷以及少量的乙炔和碳氢化合物。上层大气层的甲烷吸收红光，使天王星呈现蓝绿色。大气在固定纬度集结成云层，类似于木星和土星在纬线上鲜艳的条状色带。天王星云层的平均温度为零下193摄氏度。质量为8.6810±13×102?kg，相当于地球质量的14.63倍。密度较小，只有1.24克/立方厘米，为海王星密度值的74.7%。[54] 恒星 恒星 海王星是离太阳的第八颗行星，直径49532千米。海王星绕太阳运转的轨道半径为45亿千米，公转一周需要165年。海王星的直径和天王星类似，质量比天王星略大一些。海王星和天王星的主要大气成分都是氢和氦，内部结构也极为相近，所以说海王星与天王星是一对孪生兄弟。[55] 海王星有太阳系最强烈的风，测量到的时速高达2100公里。海王星云顶的温度是-218 °C，是太阳系最冷的地区之一。海王星核心的温度约为7000 °C，可以和太阳的表面比较。海王星在1846年9月23日被发现，是唯一利用数学预测而非有计划的观测发现的行星。[56] 冥王星，位于海王星以外的柯伊伯带内侧，是柯伊伯带中已知的最大天体。[57] 直径约为2370±20km，是地球直径的18.5%。[58] 2006年8月24日，国际天文学联合会大会24日投票决定，不再将传统九大行星之一的冥王星视为行星，而将其列入“矮行星”。大会通过的决议规定，“行星”指的是围绕太阳运转、自身引力足以克服其刚体力而使天体呈圆球状、能够清除其轨道附近其他物体的天体。在太阳系传统的“九大行星”中，只有水星、金星、地球、火星、木星、土星、天王星和海王星符合这些要求。冥王星由于其轨道与海王星的轨道相交，不符合新的行星定义，因此被自动降级为“矮行星”。[59] 冥王星的表面温度大概在-238到-228℃之间。冥王星的成份由70%岩石和30%冰水混合而成的。地表上光亮的部分可能覆盖着一些固体氮以及少量 卫星拍月球经过地球，可见清晰月球背面 卫星拍月球经过地球，可见清晰月球背面 [60] 的固体甲烷和一氧化碳，冥王星表面的黑暗部分可能是一些基本的有机物质或是由宇宙射线引发的光化学反应。冥王星的大气层主要由氮和少量的一氧化碳及甲烷组成。大气极其稀薄，地面压强只有少量微帕。[61] 地球是离太阳第三颗行星，是我们人类的家乡，尽管地球是太阳系中一颗普通的行星，但它在许多方面都是独一无二的。比如，它是太阳系中唯一一颗面积大部分被水覆盖的行星，也是目前所知唯一一颗有生命存在的星球。质量M=5.9742 ×10^24 公斤，表面温度：t = - 30 ～ +45。[62] 英国科研人员在《天体生物学》杂志上报告说，如果没有小行星撞击等可能剧烈改变环境的事件发生，地球适宜人类居住的时间还剩约17.5亿年，不过人为造成的气候变化可能缩短这一时间。[63] 彗星是由灰尘和冰块组成的太阳系中的一类小天体，绕日运动。[64] 科学家使用探测器对彗星的化学遗留物进行分析，发现其主要成份为氨、甲烷、硫化氢、氰化氢和甲醛。科学家得出结论称，彗星的气味闻起来像是臭鸡蛋、马尿、酒精和苦杏仁的气味综合。[65-66] “67P/楚留莫夫-格拉希门克”彗星 “67P/楚留莫夫-格拉希门克”彗星 [67] 在太阳系的周围还包裹着一个庞大的“奥尔特云”。星云内分布着不计其数的冰块、雪团和碎石。其中的某些会受太阳引力影响飞入内太阳系，这学说，在原有的轨道(或称小天体轨道)上又增加了更多的天体运行轨道。这一模式称每颗行星都沿着一个小轨道作圆周运行，而小轨道又沿着该行星的大轨道绕地球作圆周运动。几百年之后，这一模式的漏洞越来越明显。科学家们又在这个模式上增加了许多轨道，行星就这样沿着一道又一道的轨道作圆周运动。哥白尼想用“现代”(16世纪的)技术来改进托勒密的测量结果，以期取消一些小轨道。在长达近20年的时间里，哥白尼不辞辛劳日夜测量行星的位置，但其测量获得的结果仍然与托勒密的天体运行模式没有多少差别。哥白尼想知道在另一个运行着的行星上观察这些行星的运行情况会是什么样的。基于这种设想，哥白尼萌发了一个念头：假如地球在运行中，那么这些行星的运行看上去会是什么情况呢？这一设想在他脑海里变得清晰起来了。一年里，哥白尼在不同的时间、不同的距离从地球上观察行星，每一个行星的情况都不相同，这是他意识到地球不可能位于星星轨道的中心。经过20年的观测，哥白尼发现唯独太阳的周年变化不明显。这意味着地球和太阳的距离始终没有改变。如果地球不是宇宙的中心，那么宇宙的中心就是太阳。的发现才使牛顿有能力确定运动定律和万有引力定律。哥白尼的日心宇宙体系既然是时代的产物，它就不能不受到时代的限制。反对神学的不彻底性，同时表现在哥白尼的某些观点上，他的体系是存在缺陷的。哥白尼所指的宇宙是局限在一个小的范围内的，具体来说，他的宇宙结构就是今天我们所熟知的太阳系，即以太阳为中心的天体系统。宇宙既然有它的中心，就必须有它的边界，哥白尼虽然否定了托勒玫的“九重天”，但他却保留了一层恒星天，尽管他回避了宇宙是否有限这个问题，但实际上他是相信恒星天球是宇宙的“外壳”，他仍然相信天体只能按照所谓完美的圆形轨道运动，所以哥白尼的宇宙体系，仍然包含着不动的中心天体。但是作为近代自然科学的奠基人，哥白尼的历史功绩是伟大的。确认地球不是宇宙的中心，而是行星之一，从而掀起了一场天文学上根本性的革命，是人类探求客观真理道路上的里程碑。哥白尼的伟大成就，不仅铺平了通向近代天文学的道路，而且开创了整个自然界科学向前迈进的新时代。从哥白尼时代起，脱离教会束缚的自然科学和哲学开始获得飞跃的发展。哥白尼的科学成就，是他所处时代的产物，又转过来推动了时代的发展。顺应时代变化 十五、六世纪的欧洲，正是从封建社会向资本主义社会转变的关键时期，在这一二百年间，社会发生了巨大的变化。14世纪ndali soon after. She held out hope, she would later tell family members, sometimes tearing up at the memory, that once they were married, she could get their 别让梦想只停留在梦里。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 没有笑声的一天是浪费了的一天。(卓别林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧，见的世面多了，你会发现原来在意的那些结根本算不了什么。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功关键都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 开心一点吧，管它会怎样。baby boy back. Arthur Schieble died in August 1955, after the adoption was finalized. Just after Christmas that year, Joanne and Abdulfattah were married in St. Philip the Apostle Catholic Church in Green Bay. He got his PhD in international politics the next year, and then they had another child, a girl named Mona. After she and Jandali divorced in 1962, Joanne embarked on a dreamy and peripatetic life that her daughter, who grew up to become the acclaimed novelist Mona Simpson, would capture in her book Anywhere but Here. Because Steve’s adoption had been closed, it would be twenty years before they would all find each other. Steve Jobs knew from an early age that he was adopted. “My parents were very open with me about that,” he recalled. He had a vivid memory of sitting on the lawn of his house, when he was six or seven years old, telling the girl who lived across the street. “So does that mean your real parents didn’t want you?” the girl asked. “Lightning bolts went off in my head,” according to Jobs. “I remember running into the house, crying. And my parents said, ‘No, you have to understand.’ They were very serious and looked me straight in the eye. They said, ‘We specifically picked you out.’ Both of my parents said that and repeated it slowly for me. And they put an emphasis on every word in that sentence.” Abandoned. Chosen. Special. Those concepts became part of who Jobs was and how he regarded himself. His closest friends think that the knowledge that he was given up at birth left some scars. “I think his desire for complete control of whatever he makes derives directly from his personality and the fact that he was abandoned at birth,” said one longtime colleague, Del Yocam. “He wants to control his environment, and he sees the product as an extension of himself.” Greg Calhoun, who became close to Jobs right after college, saw another effect. “Steve talked to me a lot about being abandoned and the pain that caused,” he said. “It made him independent. He followed the beat of a different drummer, and that came from being in a different world than he was born into.” Later in life, when he was the same age his biological father had been when he abandoned him, Jobs would father and abandon a child of his own. (He eventually took responsibility for her.) Chrisann Brennan, the mother of that child, said that being put up for adoption left Jobs “full of broken glass,” and it helps to explain some of his behavior. “He who is abandoned is an abandoner,” she said. Andy Hertzfeld, who worked with Jobs at Apple in the early 1980s, is among the few who remained close to both Brennan and Jobs. “The key question about Steve is why he can’t control himself at times from being so reflexively cruel and harmful to some people,” he said. “That goes back to being abandoned at birth. The real underlying problem was the theme of abandonment in Steve’s life.” Jobs dismissed this. “There’s some notion that because I was abandoned, I worked very hard so I could do well and make my parents wish they had me back, or some such nonsense, but that’s ridiculous,” he insisted. “Knowing I was adopted may have made me feel more independent, but I have never felt abandoned. I’ve always felt special. My parents made me feel special.” He would later bristle whenever anyone referred to Paul and Clara Jobs as his “adoptive” parents or implied that they were not his “real” parents. “They were my parents 1,000%,” he said. When speaking about his biological parents, on the other hand, he was curt: “They were my sperm and egg bank. That’s not harsh, it’s just the way it was, a sperm bank thing, nothing more.” Silicon Valley The childhood that Paul and Clara Jobs created for their new son was, in many ways, a stereotype of the late 1950s. When Steve was two they adopted a girl they named Patty, and three years later they moved to a tract house in the suburbs. The finance company where Paul worked as a repo man, CIT, had transferred him down to its Palo Alto office, but he could not afford to live there, so they landed in a subdivision in Mountain View, a less expensive town just to the south. There Paul tried to pass along his love of mechanics and cars. “Steve, this is your workbench now,” he said as he marked off a section of the table in their garage. Jobs remembered being impressed by his father’s focus on craftsmanship. “I thought my dad’s sense of design was pretty good,” he said, “because he knew how to build anything. If we needed a cabinet, he would build it. When he built our fence, he gave me a hammer so I could work with him.” Fifty years later the fence still surrounds the back and side yards of the house in Mountain View. As Jobs showed it off to me, he caressed the stockade panels and recalled a lesson that his father implanted deeply in him. It was important, his father said, to craft the backs of cabinets and fences properly, even though they were hidden. “He loved doing things right. He even cared about the look of the parts you couldn’t see.” His father continued to refurbish and resell used cars, and he festooned the garage with pictures of his favorites. He would point out the detailing of the design to his son: the lines, the vents, the chrome, the trim of the seats. After work each day, he would change into his dungarees and retreat to the garage, often with Steve tagging along. “I figured I could get him nailed down with a little mechanical ability, but he really wasn’t interested in getting his hands dirty,” Paul later recalled. “He never really cared too much about m189. It requires hard work to give off an appearance of effortlessness. 你必须十分努力，才能看起来毫不费力。190. Life is like riding a bicycle.To keep your balance,you must keep moving. 人生就像骑单车，只有不断前进，才能保持平衡。(爱因斯坦) 191. Be thankful for what you have.You'll end up having more. 拥有一颗感恩的心，最终你会得到更多。192. Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. 美是一种内心的感觉，并反映在你的眼睛里。(索菲亚·罗兰) 193. Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows. 朋友的作用，就是让你快乐加倍，痛苦减半。194. When you long for something sincerely, the whole world will help you. 当你真心渴望某样东西时，整个宇宙都会来帮忙。echanical things.” “I wasn’t that into fixing cars,” Jobs admitted. “But I was eager to hang out with my dad.” Even as he was growing more aware that he had been adopted, he was becoming more attached to his father. One day when he was about eight, he discovered a photograph of his father from his time in the Coast Guard. “He’s in the engine room, and he’s got his shirt off and looks like James Dean. It was one of those Oh wow moments for a kid. Wow, oooh, my parents were actually once very young and really good-looking.” Through cars, his father gave Steve his first exposure to electronics. “My dad did not have a deep understanding of electronics, but he’d encountered it a lot in automobiles and other things he would fix. He showed me the rudiments of electronics, and I got very interested in that.” Even more interesting were the trips to scavenge for parts. “Every weekend, there’d be a junkyard trip. We’d be looking for a generator, a carburetor, all sorts of components.” He remembered watching his father negotiate at the counter. “He was a good bargainer, because he knew better than the guys at the counter what the parts should cost.” This helped fulfill the pledge his parents made when he was adopted. “My college fund came from my dad paying $50 for a Ford Falcon or some other beat-up car that didn’t run, working on it for a few weeks, and selling it for $250—and not telling the IRS.” The Jobses’ house and the others in their neighborhood were built by the real estate developer Joseph Eichler, whose company spawned more than eleven thousand homes in various California subdivisions between 1950 and 1974. Inspired by Frank Lloyd Wright’s vision of simple modern homes for the American “everyman,” Eichler built inexpensive houses that featured floor-to-ceiling glass walls, open floor plans, exposed post-and-beam construction, concrete slab floors, and lots of sliding glass doors. “Eichler did a great thing,” Jobs said on one of our walks around the neighborhood. “His houses were smart and cheap and good. They brought clean design and simple taste to lower-income people. They had awesome little features, like radiant heating in the floors. You put carpet on them, and we had nice toasty floors when we were kids.” Jobs said that his appreciation for Eichler homes instilled in him a passion for making nicely designed products for the mass market. “I love it when you can bring really great design and simple capability to something that doesn’t cost much,” he said as he pointed out the clean elegance of the houses. “It was the original vision for Apple. That’s what we tried to do with the first Mac. That’s what we did with the iPod.” Across the street from the Jobs family lived a man who had become successful as a real estate agent. “He wasn’t that bright,” Jobs recalled, “but he seemed to be making a fortune. So my dad thought, ‘I can do that.’ He worked so hard, I remember. He took these night classes, passed the license test, and got into real estate. Then the bottom fell out of the market.” As a result, the family found itself financially strapped for a year or so while Steve was in elementary school. His mother took a job as a bookkeeper for Varian Associates, a company that made scientific instruments, and they took out a second mortgage. One day his fourth-grade teacher asked him, “What is it you don’t understand about the universe?” Jobs replied, “I don’t understand why all of a sudden my dad is so broke.” He was proud that his father never adopted a servile attitude or slick style that may have made him a better salesman. “You had to suck up to people to sell real estate, and he wasn’t good at that and it wasn’t in his nature. I admired him for that.” Paul Jobs went back to being a mechanic. His father was calm and gentle, traits that his son later praised more than emulated. He was also resolute. Jobs described one exampl What made the neighborhood different from the thousands of other spindly-tree subdivisions across America was that even the ne’er-do-wells tended to be engineers. “When we moved here, there were apricot and plum orchards on all of these corners,” Jobs recalled. “But it was beginning to boom because of military investment.” He soaked up the history of the valley and developed a yearning to play his own role. Edwin Land of Polaroid later told him about being asked by Eisenhower to help build the U-2 spy plane cameras to see how real the Soviet threat was. The film was dropped in canisters and returned to the NASA Ames Research Center in Sunnyvale, not far from where Jobs lived. “The first computer terminal I ever saw was when my dad brought me to the Ames Center,” he said. “I fell totally in love with it.” Other defense contractors sprouted nearby during the 1950s. The Lockheed Missiles and Space Division, which built submarine-launched ballistic missiles, was founded in 1956 next to the NASA Center; by the time Jobs moved to the area four years later, it employed twenty thousand people. A few hundred yards away, Westinghouse built facilities that produced tubes and electrical transformers for the missile systems. “You had all these military companies on the cutting edge,” he recalled. “It was mysterious and high-tech and made living here very exciting.” In the wake of the defense industries there arose a booming economy based on technology. Its roots stretched back to 1938, when David Packard and his new wife moved into a house in Palo Alto that had a shed where his friend Bill Hewlett was soon ensconced. The house had a garage—an appendage that would prove both useful and iconic in the valley—in which they tinkered around until they had their first product, an audio oscillator. By the 1950s, Hewlett-Packard was a fast-growing company making technical instruments. Fortunately there was a place nearby for entrepreneurs who had outgrown their garages. In a move that would help transform the area into the cradle of the tech revolution, Stanford University’s dean of engineering, Frederick Terman, created a seven-hundred-acre industrial park on university land for private companies that could commercialize the ideas of his students. Its first tenant was Varian Associates, where Clara Jobs worked. “Terman came up with this great idea that did more than anything to cause the tech industry to grow up here,” Jobs said. By the time Jobs was ten, HP had nine thousand employees and was the blue-chip company where every engineer seeking financial stability wanted to work. The most important technology for the region’s growth was, of course, the semiconductor. William Shockley, who had been one of the inventors of the transistor at Bell Labs in New Jersey, moved out to Mountain View and, in 1956, started a company to build transistors using silicon rather than the more expensive germanium that was then commonly used. But Shockley became increasingly erratic and abandoned his silicon transistor project, which led eight of his engineers—most notably Robert Noyce and Gordon Moore—to break away to form Fairchild Semiconductor. That company grew to twelve thousand employees, but it fragmented in 1968, when Noyce lost a power struggle to become CEO. He took Gordon Moore and founded a company that they called Integrated Electronics Corporation, which they soon smartly abbreviated to Intel. Their third employee was Andrew Grove, who later would grow the company by shifting its focus from memory chips to microprocessors. Within a few years there would be more than fifty companies in the area making semiconductors. The exponential growth of this industry was correlated with the phenomenon famously discovered by Moore, who in 1965 drew a graph of the speed of integrated circuits, based on the number of transistors that could be placed on a chip, and showed that it doubled about every two years, a trajectory that could be expected to continue. This was reaffirmed in 1971, when Intel was able to etch a complete central processing unit onto one chip, the Intel 4004, tronic amplifier. “So I raced home, and I told my dad that he was wrong.” “No, it needs an amplifier,” his father assured him. When Steve protested otherwise, his father said he was crazy. “It can’t work without an amplifier. There’s some trick.” “I kept saying no to my dad, telling him he had to see it, and finally he actually walked down with me and saw it. And he said, ‘Well I’ll be a bat out of hell.’” Jobs recalled the incident vividly because it was his first realization that his father did not know everything. Then a more disconcerting discovery began to dawn on him: He was smarter than his parents. He had always admired his father’s competence and savvy. “He was not an educated man, but I had always thought he was pretty damn smart. He didn’t read much, but he could do a lot. Almost everything mechanical, he could figure it out.” Yet the carbon microphone incident, Jobs said, began a jarring process of realizing that he was in fact more clever and quick than his parents. “It was a very big moment that’s burned into my mind. When I realized that I was smarter than my parents, I felt tremendous shame for having thought that. I will never forget that moment.” This discovery, he later told friends, along with the fact that he was adopted, made him feel apart—detached and separate—from both his family and the world. Another layer of awareness occurred soon after. Not only did he discover that he was brighter than his parents, but he discovered that they knew this. Paul and Clara Jobs were loving parents, and they were willing to adapt their lives to suit a son who was very smart—and also willful. They would go to great lengths to accommodate him. And soon Steve discovered this fact as well. “Both my parents got me. They felt a lot of responsibility once they sensed that I was special. They found ways to keep feeding me stuff and putting me in better schools. They were willing to defer to my needs.” So he grew up not only with a sense of having once been abandoned, but also with a sense that he was special. In his own mind, that was more important in the formation of his personality. School Even before Jobs started elementary school, his mother had taught him how to read. This, however, led to some problems once he got to school. “I was kind of bored for the first few years

     像她这般有“观众缘”的主播，

     欲再觅一个实属不易!

     80年代是杜宪人生中最为耀眼的时期，

     有人甚至用“近乎一种完美的神话”来形容她。

     可以说那时的中国人，

     都很期待她能来主持春晚，

     因为每个人都想看看，

     她穿上礼服时的优雅样子。

    

    

    

    

     同时，她也是一个优秀的妻子，

     一个温柔的母亲。

     她无论何时都维护着丈夫的尊严。

     犹如初相识般，

     保持着对另一半的迷恋。

    

     有人曾质疑陈道明的演技，

     她却坚定地告诉所有人：

     “如果你要问，

     中国的男演员谁算第一我不知道，

     但是在我眼中，

     我们家的男演员陈道明永远是第一!”

    

     1985年，他们的女儿出生了，

     名叫陈格，小名格格，

     那时陈道明主演的末代皇帝正火，

     大家都以为他女儿的名字，

     和他扮演的帝王角色有关。

     其实陈格这个名字是有学问的姥爷起的，

     出自王阳明著作中的名句。

    

     格格有着圆圆的大眼睛，

     非常地纯真可爱，

     陈道明每天都忙碌着拍戏，

     照顾女儿的重任就落在了杜宪的身上。

    

     虽然叫“格格”，但他们两夫妇，

     却没想过要把孩子往“公主”上培养，

     一切由着孩子自由成长。

     格格13岁就只身一人远赴英国去求学了。

    

     在对待孩子方面，

     他们俩对孩子的爱都一样，

     但表达的方式却不同，

     他们家一贯讲“严父慈母”。

     母亲牵挂得更多一些，

     照顾得更多一点，

     父亲则原则性更强一些，

     在大的方面给指导。

     但是陈道明后来发现这样做不行，

     他管孩子太严，

     孩子长大开始“记仇”了。

     杜宪笑着说：

     “大家都说，陈格的对象比较难找。

     为什么呀？因为有这么一个，

     凶恶的老岳父在后面，谁敢呀!”

    

     这对夫妇实在是太低调了，

     不仅自己生活低调，

     就连女儿也是保护得密不透风，

     你很难在网上找到更多关于陈格的信息。

     只知道长大后的她，

     成为了越剧团青年演员兼舞蹈演员。

    

    

     再后来......

     杜宪离开了播音组。

     她去了经济部做幕后编辑工作。

     她进入经济部工作了三年，

     节目的工作人员表上她都是用化名：

     皓月。

     之后她又开始钻研经济，

     考进了中国科技大学干部管理学院的，

     经济管理研究生班进修。

    

     从央视首席播音员到研究生，

     无论何种角色，

     她都能做到极致，做到最好。

     92年她正式从央视辞职，

     她后来用文字追述了当时的心境：

     "1992年是我砸铁饭碗的一年……我将最后一个月的工资条保存了下来，注明：1992年6月。当我办完手续，明确了铁饭碗确确实实换成瓷饭碗时，努力让自己体会了一阵，没有多少特殊感觉，淡淡的有那么一点后顾之忧。但一转念，不就是最不济了，到晚年穷困潦倒，在贫病交加之中死去吗？还指不定能不能活得到那时候呢。想不了那么远了。"

     离开央视后的杜宪，

     她的家政水平却突飞猛进，

     每天挎著菜篮子逛农贸市场，

     在厨艺上渐有心得。

     日常除了学英语，就是相夫教子。

     陈道明得意地对旁人说：

     “我们家杜宪呀，大家风范，荣辱不惊!”

     虽然人们无法再在荧屏上看到她，

     但她的知名度反而越来越高，

     她的故事被人们众口相传。

     有谣言称：

     “陈道明要和杜宪闹离婚了!"

     人们都怒不可遏，

     争先抢后要为杜宪抱不平，

     直到得知是谣言才罢休。

     可见她在老百姓心中的地位。

     后来，国际新闻广播电视交流中心，

     邀请她出任大型电视片集，

     《中国小城镇》的主持人。

     她欣然同意了，

     借此，她才终于重新回到了荧屏。

     摄制组行经云、贵、陕、川、藏，

     所到之处都掀起了“杜宪狂热”。

    

     1992年9月至年底，

     她以访问学者身份赴美交流。

     写了一本叫《我在美国106天》的书。

    

     从美国回来后的她一头扎进商海。

     有朋友劝她出山，

     她就调侃：“你们鼓动我，

     老说什么‘再展雄风’啊，我说甭雄风了，

     现在还有什么雄风啊。

     你们把我鼓动出来，想毁了我一世的英名!”

     但凤凰台还是把她感动了。

     凤凰台领导对她说：

     “我们请你做的是个环保节目，

     一个比较严肃的节目，要有份量，

     太稚嫩太年轻的，谈这种话题反而不合适。”

     她决定要试一试：

     “我就把我这点余热奉献给凤凰了!”

     从此，每周5次，每次15分钟，

     她都会亮相凤凰《我们只有一个地球》。

     当年那个端庄大方、

     亲切无比的主持人形象，再现荧屏!

    

     观众更是热情似火，

     他们甚至还为她穿什么衣服“瞎操心”。

    

    

     2013年，知名博主“北京冬雨”，

     曝光了杜宪的近照，

     照片中，她一头干练的短发，

     围着蓝白色的围巾，

     露着她那标志性的知性笑容，

     59岁的她，已是中国传媒大学副教授。

    

     其实，陈道明和杜宪，

     令人羡慕的婚姻并非一帆风顺，

     陈道明成名之后，多次被传离婚，

     在接受记者采访时，

     杜宪只是平静地说：

     “外界传言我与陈道明好像离婚了？

     甚至好几次了？

     当初听到这种传言时，还想查查。

     后来我就开玩笑，

     说谣言大概是陈道明自己造出来的。

     大家这么想，可能是因为我久不在媒体露面，

     他又比较长时间的不接受采访造成的。”

    

     他有着不理世俗的超脱气质，

     而她有着大慈大悲的宽容肚量。

     只有杜宪配得上陈道明，

     也只有陈道明配得上杜宪。

     在陈道明眼里，杜宪是一个

     “不以学识判人，

     不以金钱判人，

     不以地位判人”

     的伟大女人。

    

     静雅大方，笑颜如初，

     永远端庄亲和，风华正茂，

     少了名气，却赢得了人生!

     也正是这样的女人，

     让另一半心甘情愿地恋家。

    

     如果无法像她一样，

     做一个有姿色的女人，

     也无法像她一样，

     做一个聪明伶俐的女人，

     那就做一个有态度的女人吧!

     内心有自己的价值观，

     不为世间是非功利而左右，

     即使没有人为你鼓掌，

     也要优雅地谢幕。

     低调地生活在自己的世界里，

     像喝茶一般，

     水是沸的，心是静的。

     浅斟慢酌，任尘世浮华，

     似眼前不绝升腾的水雾，

     氤氲缭绕飘散。

     茶罢，一敛裾，绝尘而去。

     只留下，

     大地上让人欣赏不尽的优雅背影。

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