美可以寄身于任何人，但又不属于任何人。

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span style="font-size: 15px;"" >时候，我们会把自己视为其他人不友善行为的受害者。这是一种看待世界的方式，站在这样的立场上，我们会感觉自己很无辜、遭到别人的恶意对待，我们甚至还会把自己的愤怒指向某些人。这就是对责任最极端的否定。

span style="font-size: 15px;"" >扮演受害者角色的，不一定是特定的某些人。如果承受的压力达到一定程度，多数人都可能会做出这样的行为。

span style="font-size: 15px;"" >些人会有意识地把自己形容成受害者，企图操控他人或是贬低他人。但是，扮演受害者角色的人，通常会被困在自己的行为模式里，每当他无力应对挑战，且对自己感到厌倦，或是当他的焦虑超出负荷的时候，就会退缩到内心的角落。

span style="font-size: 15px;"" >你陷入受害者困境时，可能会用非黑即白的眼光看世界。有时候，脱离当下的困境，需要你对它有更细微的了解。

span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"" >—伊尔斯·桑德《内疚清理练习》

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section style="padding: 20px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 637px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;line-height: 2.2;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >p style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;"" >span style="font-size: 14px;"" >想的交流是一切爱情、友情和真正的对话得以实现的必要条件。两颗志趣相投的心灵产生了碰撞，双方都能从这种碰撞中受益无穷。比起我自己独处时思考的产物，从他人那儿得到的启发往往更能让我眼前一亮。

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span style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"" >span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 13px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"" >—博尔赫斯

img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" data-ratio="0.9929078014184397" data-s="300,640" dsrc=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/eymiaPn8FibqbyxicUy5RXiasZhmcyEO6Via2uuW4rFPTEEenDwQJ37BIdXbibIUt7o9vmZW2HxQu38SiaWY3icSfPhQQA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="564" style="" />

section style="padding: 20px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 637px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;line-height: 2.2;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >p style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;"" >span style="font-size: 14px;"" >可以寄身于任何人，但又不属于任何人。

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span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 13px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"" >—三岛由纪夫《金阁寺》

img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" data-ratio="0.7392578125" data-s="300,640" dsrc=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/eymiaPn8FibqbyxicUy5RXiasZhmcyEO6Via2LNcZnbTC7A8VLSFfkRoXWe7N5ibu0mRlN8TDMTicFlpKpb8Yt57pYsSg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1024" style="" />

section style="padding: 20px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 637px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;line-height: 2.2;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >p>对精神世界的过度探索是很危险的事情，一旦迈过那条实线，人生就会划向虚无主义。这就是为什么说人一定要爱上一点什么，有点牵绊才会形成抓力，把你留在这个世界上。”

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img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" data-ratio="0.8" data-s="300,640" dsrc=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/eymiaPn8FibqbyxicUy5RXiasZhmcyEO6Via2epg7ibdmyMaqNpfujkJX3Myd6VmzCq79GZlOibUw0CoqZlbPj15hEfGA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="690" style="" />

section style="padding: 20px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 637px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;line-height: 2.2;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >p>到底什么样的经历才能让你脱胎换骨，就是把自己揉碎搓成粉，再重新捏一个新的你。我的意思是，如果道理不是你自己悟出来的，谁告诉你都没有用。”

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section style="padding: 20px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 637px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;line-height: 2.2;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >p style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;"" >span style="font-size: 14px;"" >去爬山被告知的第一件事，就是别去看顶峰。而要专注于在爬的路，一步一个脚印地，耐心攀登，如果你不断看山顶，就会泄气。

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span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 13px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"" >—黑泽明

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section style="padding: 20px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 637px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;line-height: 2.2;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"" >p>span style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;"" >律的本质是一种对精力的分配。一个人的时间精力都是有限的，没有人能在一切方面自律，也没有人能够在一切方面不自律。所以一定要在“想做的与“可做可不做中排出优先级。们身边永远会有纷纷扰扰的声音，但如何决定人生的优先级，始终在我们自己。/span>

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span style="font-size: 14px;"" >顾城

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span style="font-size: 14px;"" >着眼睛

span style="font-size: 14px;"" >自在落叶的路上穿过

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span style="font-size: 14px;"" >那些悠闲的风

span style="font-size: 14px;"" >身后吃惊

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span style="font-size: 14px;"" >骄傲地走着

span style="font-size: 14px;"" >切已经决定

span style="font-size: 14px;"" >着

span style="font-size: 14px;"" >像身后

span style="font-size: 14px;"" >着一个沮丧得不敢哭泣的

span style="font-size: 14px;"" >子

span style="font-size: 14px;"" >叫命运

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span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 13px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"" >ia@叶三/span>

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